Tajuk di atas adalah gaya org gelak gedik...dgn tune yg kecik nyaring smbil cover2 mulut...hahaha...boleh bayang? bagus...now..move on!
Baru je lepas tukar status kat my facebook account. From single to in a relationship. Haha...over tak? Well, considering that lots of love are blooming around me, they are blooming so much till I got kinda affected by it, I think it's not wrong to do what I planned. Alang2 org sekeliling ngah syok bercintan-cintun, apa salahnyer ak pn bercintan-cintun dgn gaya ak sendiri...
And kebetulan plak..a few minutes after I changed that status of mine, my dearest bonda called. Well, the primary purpose she called was to ask about the traditional costume that I wore during my student exchange programme to Japan in 2004. Masa tu kena buat Malay dance to promote Malaysian culture. Kitorg buat lagu Asmaradana uols! Memandangkn masa tu tengah Puteri Gunung Ledang fever. It seemed that dearest mom wants to use that attire for this one event happening in school. And seriously, I have no idea mana aku dah campak baju tu...tee hee...but after ransacking my things, she finally found it in a big box where I put all my old things. Mesti berhabuk...kesian bonda.
But that's not the issue. She asked about my studies, then suddenly asked about my friends.
Me: Kawan? Setakat ni Alhamdulillah. Ada sorg tu dah jumpa kawan baru
Bonda: Ye ke? Kawan mana?
Me: Ala...kawan baru..kawan special. (laughing)
Bonda: Oooo...sape kawan tu?
Me: Ada la...Mak tak kenal. Tak pernah jumpa.
Bonda: ok ok...Awak takde ke?
Me: Hahaha...(gelak poyo). Takde la...Takde sapa suka...huhu(ngada-ngada. saje nk manja-manja dgn bonda)
Bonda: Mana tau?
Me: Ala...tau la...ada la sukasorang ni, tapi dia tak suka kat org.
Bonda: Laa...cakap la kat dia
Me: Haaa???? Buat pe nk ckp? Eiii....malu la...nanti kalau ckp kt dia, kang dia terkejut terus taknak kawan ngan org. Baik kawan mcm biasa je.
Bonda: Ish...nanti susah la nak cari kalau malu-malu
Me: takpe...taknak cari pun. Bonda la tlg cari kan...
Bonda: ISHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No way....(haha...dgn pantas memprotes)
Me: hahahahaha....Ala...relaks la bonda. Org main2 je la. Takde sape pn. Takde suka sape-sape. Sape-sape pun takde yang suka...hahaha (faham ke?)
Bonda: (motherly laugh) takpe la. Yang penting, apa2 hal study dulu.
Ish2...tiba2 sebak plak mendengar harapan bonda. She's talking on behalf of my dearest dad and the whole family as well. Insya Allah I'll try my best...=)
It's fun to talk about this relationship stuff with dearest mother. Because it makes a whole lot of difference compared to sharing it with your friends. With dearest mother, I can be as honest and as true as I can ever be. That doesn't mean that I'm not honest and true with my friends. It's just that the level is different. The standard of trust is different when talking to parents and to friends. With friends, we can talk about it and make it into something funny to laugh about. With parents, it makes it into something to ponder about. Whether or not this person whom I have a heart to will win my parents' heart just as he won mine? And through the conversation, with all the advice and all, it makes us think whether the person that we like is really the one who is suitable for us? Secara tak langsung, it makes me think more of myself and how I can improve it to be a better person.
p/s: This is unrelated, but I don't mind. Siapa yg faham, that's wonderful Siapa yang tak, it's okay. We're not all the same, we all have different views